How do you see tomorrow ?

Do not you see with me that the constant sense of the disease, misery and poverty, physical disability is not the reason, and do not work hard, and not the lack of financial resources ..!

Maybe I see on your face now features skepticism in my words, and before you complain, let me explain to you the idea..

That I want to say that the incidents of life is not the real reason to influence our lives, but what really affects us is our outlook towards these incidents!!

There are those who find trouble severe vision.

Or lose someone dear to him.

Or does not have the money and Vera.. 

And with that stand tall, defies these circumstances, and perhaps ridiculed them, and Pat because more determination to succeed, and to get what he deserves.. 

And you see a smile, hope and enthusiasm radiates him.

And someone else has the money, health, and once it is different with a friend, or quarreled with his colleagues, find thinking of suicide.

What is the difference between the two?

The difference is the ideas held by each other's mind, the former despite the harsh conditions, but he believes that it is able to enjoy life.

The other has told him his ideas that small problem in front of him  is equal to the end of the world

Self-contempt

One of the biggest reasons for failure is self-contempt and that: 
 - The motives of self-
- The motives of others 

 The Strong Alfred  story

 
There was a bus driver in Europe, always feels contempt for himself, and in a days work, and while he stops by bus to come down another passenger with him ... Climbed a very tall man .. Very wide .. Very strong.

And a very sonorous voice said:I Alfred strong .. Who does not pay the price of tickets.It was imposed on the driver to ask him: Why do not you pay?

But he did not dare to ask him .. And did not ask him for the ticket .. And laced sense of vulnerability.

The next day repeat the same scene with the driver and the driver tasted the taste of humiliation for the second time.

And this position has become a daily habitAnd then hit the driver frustration and increased sense of oppression.

Then the driver said to himself: What is this oppression, why not be a strong and brave like Alfred?

And decided to take time off from work for a period .. And went to the gym .. And trained as a bodybuilder for several months.

And here began back his self-confidence and has swelled his muscles .. And he returned to his work.

And when Alfred strong boarded and said: I Alfred strong .. Who does not pay the price of tickets.

Here, the bus driver stopped the bus and look at Alfred .. And said in a  Challenge voice:

And why do not pay for tickets?Alfred said: because I bring a free ride permit.

If .. Look at yourself

You are the best creatures on earth

Do not be weak and do not reduce your business.

People against you ... Not with you

Live happy when you reduce your expectations from the people. 
 
When you do not wait for them to help you, or encouraging if you worked a good thing, or reduce the pain when they fail or fall. 
 
And I'm telling you: it was able to dispense with the others have got half the ticket to happiness and comfort. 
 
This is not because people are bad, but because people are different accounts all your accounts, and their interests are different from you. 
 
Do not be surprised if it was a gala day for you .. Is a day of sorrow and mourning for someone else. 
 
On the day of graduation be the happiest people on earth, and expect that everyone who shares this happiness, surprised that the number is less than I expected, it becomes your happiness day-to-day grief. 
 
You need in day-to-money, going to a friend, you know that he has money, and that the amount that you want, not too much, apologizing for his inability, and his inability to help you, and they come out of him, and you sad.
 

Here's the solution: 

 
- First, do not expect a lot of people, so do not be disappointed. 
 
- When you give do not wait for return. 
 
- When you do not expect to find, better than you expect and do not find